"If you build it, they will come."

We have immensely enjoyed a mid-term break this week. A quick trip out of Massy and to West France’s, Normandy has been incredibly refreshing. Our brains and bodies have caught a breather and are better able to synthesize the loads of new information we have been taking in. Moving to France nearly 2 months ago and diving into school head first has been both a huge blessing and completely exhausting. We were giddy about getting out of the classroom and into France.
We were reminded that the learning never stops while touring magnificent Mont Saint Michel.
1. Apparently Archangel Michael coined the phrase, “If you build it, they will come”, when he was instructing the bishop of Avranches to build the island abbey in A.D. 708. The sight is packed with stories of faith, war and pilgrimage. It is truly an awe-inspiring pile of stones. I guess the 80’s baseball flick Field of Dreams was inspired by the same idea.
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2. Taking a stroller to this historic site is a horrible idea. As we passed people upon entering the village below the abbey I wondered why others kept giving us a little chuckle as they passed by. Normally this might be because of Oliver’s chubby cheeks, relaxed stroller pose and who knows why else. But in retrospect I am pretty sure it was because they knew something we did not....there were many, many, many STAIRS in our very near future. After about 10 flights of beep-bopping Oliver up the ancient stone steps we approached the entrance to the abbey. It was glaringly evident that this was one job that the baby jogger was not cut out for. Plan B...divide and conquer. Thanks to a borrowed car, nearby lodging and nap time we were able take turns coming and going, taking in the sites fullness sans enfant (without child).
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Joyeux Anniversaire

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We have much reason to celebrate lately...Jonathan and Oliver being the biggest (click on the pic to view album)! An overnight stay in Paris and a wild, toddler bash marked the turn of the year for these two studs. We are grateful for another year of growing in family life together and for the opportunity to study French this year. It continues to be a lot of hard work, but we remain hopeful that the seeds of learning now will reap a harvest in our ministry that lies ahead. We are also encouraged by glowing moments in present life when we can effectively buy bread, get a haircut, talk with soccer buddies, greet people at church or around town and wade through our prenatal appointments. Everyday is full of learning.
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La Vie à Massy

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Life in Massy, we have discovered, does not equal life in Paris.  Although we are a mere 8 miles from downtown, we often feel a world away from Paris as we navigate the streets among not-so-modern high-rise apartments. Massy is one of many suburbs that surrounds the city of light.
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We are learning our way around the 4 grocery stores in the neighborhood and where to find the best in vegetables, fruits, cheese and prices.  We have discovered a charming french bakery nearby where there are amazing breads and delicacies! Good thing we have to do lots of walking to get to these places. Toting a toddler around town without a car has taken some creativity. Although we miss strapping him in a car seat, he seems to enjoy the freedom of the open road.
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Bonjour. Yeahhh!!!

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The past two Sunday’s we have visited local churches. These are the few hours of our week that we are truly immersed among the French. As time goes on we expect the hours to grow that we spend fumbling around in conversational french. Crossing cultures Sunday morning has been a learning experience on many different levels. One of the biggest differences has been having Oliver in our laps during the service. It seems that nursery care is not as common, thus kids of all ages are sprinkled throughout the congregation. Both Sunday’s Oliver has jumped right in to the festivities. After the first hymn we sang on our first sunday morning Oliver let out a yelping “yeahhh” while clapping at the close of the song. He was so proud of his participation and timing. Another habit that he has picked up and proudly displayed this past Sunday is to repetitively say, “Bonjour!” once he realizes that French is being spoken. He is becoming well acquainted with the word, whisper from his parents and doing a stellar job of sitting and squirming through services.
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Back to School

Nous sommes des étudiants. Translated: we are students (however I know many of you do not need a translation since french has been coming out of the woodwork in emails to us. I look forward to the day when I can understand what you have written).
Here is a snapshot of a (week) day in our new life here in France: wake up, class, lunch, class, walk to the bakery or grocery store, eat dinner, play trains or go for a walk, homework, pass out in bed, repeat. We are 100% submerged in learning right now. Our classes are challenging and our brains are already being stretched to their limit after just 6 days of class.
We are hopeful that the seeds of learning being sown will reap benefits in our life and ministry in Madagascar and beyond.
il est difficile, but also a gift to be learning French.
Here are a few pics of class, home and a school field trip down the Seine river in downtown Paris.
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My superb teacher Alain teaching me to make the proper “ou” sound in French. “Mooooo like an angry cow” he says.
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A beautiful and very chilly boat ride down the Seine river last Wednesday. Yep, that is the Eiffel tower in the background.
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A very exciting “chooo chooo” ride for Oliver in to Paris. Our school is a 30 minute train ride from downtown Paris. We are still trying to figure out how to make public transportation + toddler ≠ chaos. Any tips?
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Kitchen/living room/dining room in our petit apartment on campus. No. 1 missed comfort from home...American sized couch.
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Jonathan and Oliver at home on the snowy trails in Massy.
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Christmas Album

Here are some of our favorite pics from Christmas with the Stuart family and onward to Paris. More to come soon of what our life looks like on this side of the world.
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First Impressions

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We have arrived in Massy, France and are making home in our little 550 sq ft. apartment (which feels unusually spacious to us). It is a luxury to unpack our bags and begin to “settle” after four months of a very transient lifestyle. So far we are very excited to be here. The 7 hour jet lag has been very kind to us and thankfully we have adjusted our days and night to fit our new culture. Students have been graciously welcoming to us. One family even picked us up from the airport and filled our fridge with the essentials. What kindness! We are eager to start classes on Monday and to begin exploring this beautiful country.

First Impressions...grocery stores are wonderful. Full of natural foods like fresh breads, enormous selections of cheese, yogurt, meats and our favorite...chocolate. Going to the store gave us the challenged and humbling experience of illiteracy. We sought out products with pictures to help guide us and ate a mystery dinner last night. Whatever it was it was good. As we think about our road ahead to Madagascar we are grateful for this foundation building time in France.
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Coping in "Chaos"

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Earlier this month we did the long drive from the lowlands of Houston to the Highlands of Colorado Springs where we have settled at Mission Training International for a three week course on culture and cross-cultural living.  Our days have been filled with class while Oliver has been enjoying the daycare.  Topics have abounded on cultural adjustments, dealing with stress and conflict, building community, value awareness and much, much more. One of the most relevant topics to our life now has been transitions. We have officially entered “chaos”, also known as the rootless stage. We can expect this to intensify as we enter a new culture, facing many new internal and external challenges. It has been helpful to name and understand the larger process in which we find ourselves. We know the anxiety and ambiguity of "chaos" will pass as we press through the many stages of change.
Please pray for us as we take the 15 hour drive back to San Antonio this next weekend. We look forward to celebrating Christmas with family before departing for France at the end of month.
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Texas Times

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We spent the month of November living luxuriously in a real house, with a real bed where "road tripping" meant going to the store, church, to see friends or to the mall to gather more gear for our big departure. It was nice to unpack and catch up with family, friends and partners in the Houston area. Suprisingly there were times we missed our little vagabond lifestyle of daily adventure. Not for long though....once again we are on the road. Currently we are making the drive to Colorado for a three week course on cross-cultural adapatation. We look forward to what this course has to offer as we are amist one the biggest transitions of our lives...and to playing in the snow and mountains.




Our time in Texas was full in all the best ways. Here are a few snapshots of memorable moments...more to come later.
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What's time in Texas without tractors and corn?
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The cutest little monkey and lady bug in Katy. Oliver was really in to knocking on doors and taking candy from people.
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Oliver was so excited to get his haircut (while driving a car and watching an Elmo video), he threw a tantrum when we had to leave.
Oliver hanging out with his friend Ian.
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Sweet Reese and hanging out with the Slay family.

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The End of the Road...Trip

After nearly 50 days of road tripping we have put the car in park for a little while and are unpacking our bags. We are in Texas for the month of November working, playing and visiting until we hit the road again after Thanksgiving. All in all it was a trip of a lifetime. We are thankful for all the hospitality we received while on the road. Good food, great company, warm showers and new, exciting toys are what kept us going. We are pretty sure we have mapped out most major playgrounds from WA to TX, along with the most indredible beaches in the US. Most importantly we have bonded as a family in new ways, learning to live very closely and work together in everything. This is probably the most valuable preparation we can have as we face many new people and places over the next couple years.
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